3 PHASES OF RELATIONSHIP :) by: eljei maldita!♥
Someone told me that there’s just 3 types of relationship.
1st is the one who’ll TEACH YOU.
2nd is the one who’ll leave and KEEP YOU STRONG.
and the 3rd is that ONE TRUE LOVE.
well I say;
THAT I BEG TO DISAGREE! :)
It doesn’t matter what stage in ur life ur gonna fall inlove.
It doesn’t matter if it’s your first, your second nor your last.
cause what matter is, HOW YOU KEEP YOUR RELATIONSHIP TOGETHER OVER TIME.
that’s why there’s the word, “PATCHING” things up ‘TOGETHER’.
Because you talk, understand, listen and work things out together.
My point is, working the relationship out “TOGETHER.”
you do it AS ONE.
if the other couldn’t give and couldn’t listen, then just maybe that’s the time to think A THOUSAND times if you still wish to stay.
it’s not with how long the relationship was.
It’s the depthness of how you well understand and know each other.
LOVE wouldn’t work without ACT.
without TRUST, LOYALTY and UNDERSTANDING.
it ALL WORKS TOGETHER IN THE SAME ELEMENT.
I had a client, who shared me her story.She was like 80’ish or 90’ish.
She told me that she dated this young man for a month then got married the next month.
evryone including her family was surprised about her sudden marriage.
(oh well,.. who wouldn’t be?!?? haha!)
they had their family for years and stayed inlove even after her husband’s death.
“I was 16 when we got married”, she told me.
“…and even after death i love him. I was crying beside his bed. and he was like, ssshhh… don’t be a cry baby. i love you until now.”
—it was world war baby! c’mon!(—,) no gadgets, no cellphones knowing that her husband was a soldier that time. so you see how worried she was about her love during that time. but hey they kept their love. :)
her story inspired me. :)
it simply tells us that:
“YOU DON’T NEED TO EAT AN ENTIRE CAKE JUST TO KNOW IF IT TASTE GOOD. RIGHT? ;)”
sometimes all you need is few taste to know if it’s gonna be good for you or not.
WE ALL HAVE CHOICES.
we are given the freedom to choose what we want and make our own decision.
HAPPINESS IS A CHOICE.
STAY if you’re HAPPY and LEAVE when your NOT. :)
it’s as simple as that. LIFE DOESN’T NEED TO BE TOO COMPLICATED.
NEVER BLOCK YOUR BLESSING just ENJOY WHATEVER IT IS THAT’S COMING YOUR WAY.
Cause you’ll never enjoy the trip of ur life if you keep on worrying what tomorrow could bring.
HAPPINESS is YOU!(^^,)♥ ♥ ♥
